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31 July 2011
Leg II: Fort Collins to Spirit Lake
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26 July 2011
DONUTS!
Party Prep: Theresa helped us out by making a vat of potato salad!! (And T and her honey, Chris, put us up in their abode for three days, too!! Which was wonderful, as always! Thank You!) |
Derek's Aunt Nancie and Uncle Paul join us in the Awesome Matching T-Shirts Club! |
Greg and Jamie--pals from Derek's Masters program at CSU...and fellow world travelers! How's China? |
The Table Decor was styled with help by Nancie, Theresa, and Chris...we sent a box of our original decorations down from Spearfish that will continue to attend more of the events! Get excited!!! |
The fine work of an artist, the Upright Tower of Wedding Favors |
Leg I: Spearfish, SD to Fort Collins, CO
Starting off in front of the Meyers house in Spearfish. Derek's dad, Kent, his brother Jordan, his Aunt Nancie, and our friend John rode with us up the canyon to Cheyenne Crossing... |
...where we met a big group of friends and family to have a bon voyage breakfast! |
Outside Cheyenne Crossing after some delectable sourdough pancakes! |
The Hills are so incredibly green after so much rainfall! |
In Hill City, we stayed at an adorable B&B called Mountains and Plains--it is also the Smiling Bear Gift Shop. The owners, Sam and Linda, were incredibly sweet and wonderful, and made us omelettes in the morning to send us off!! Here are some more pics of the B&B on their website. |
From Hill City, we had beautiful weather heading south on the Michelson Trail , until we were nearing Edgemont. The skies started threatening rain, and we ditched the gravel trail for the shorter, faster road...as we came within a mile or two of Edgemont, the skies opened up. Our original plan was to camp on the southwest side of Edgemont in the Buffalo Gap Grasslands, but instead we opted for a motel (The Rainbow) . What would we expect to see over the hotel office on our way back from a big steak and potato dinner...? |
Finally, we reached Cheyenne, again just before an enormous storm began brewing over the top of us. By that time, though, we were having AMAZING Italian food at a little place called L'Osteria Mondello! It really was spectacularly good. The front of the place was a little pizzeria, but then in the back they had a full menu with wait service. And not only was the food spectacular, but they also gave us free cannolis! So, if you're ever in Cheyenne, we highly recommend it. |
23 July 2011
Spearfish Wedding and Reception
A Map of the World
by Ted Kooser
One of the ancient maps of the world
is heart-shaped, carefully drawn
and once washed with bright colors,
though the colors have faded
as you might expect feelings to fade
from a fragile old heart, the brown map
of a life. But feeling is indelible,
and longing infinite, a starburst compass
pointing in all the directions
two lovers might go, a fresh breeze
swelling their sails, the future uncharted,
still far from the edge
where the sea pours into the stars.
The summer Derek was nine he developed an interest in grasshoppers. There were a lot of them around, and he thought he should have a few, so we found him a glass jar, and we cut holes in the lid, and Derek prepared an expedition to the meadow between our house and the creek. Before long he came running back. We anticipated a grasshopper bonanza, but discovered instead, when he got in the door, that his right hand was bleeding—profusely.
He hadn’t discovered some kung-fu grasshopper that considered living in a jar an insult. Rather, the grasshoppers were quicker than he’d anticipated, and after several failures at catching them, he had a good idea. If the grasshoppers wouldn’t go inside the jar, the jar would go outside the grasshoppers. Derek crept up to the next grasshopper he saw, lifted his jar like a net and swung it down, capturing the grasshopper inside.
For a split second.
In the next split second, the jar didn’t exist, since the grasshopper happened to be sitting on a rock.
You can fill out the rest of the story.
Perhaps I shouldn’t be speaking of blood and gore at a wedding. I hope no one’s feeling faint. I should be speaking of love and togetherness, not the groom’s former wounds and failures, and if I have to talk about insects, tradition probably demands butterflies. But there are things that stick in a parent’s mind, and they stick for reasons, and a wedding is a time to wonder about how the past, even in its small ways, is held to the future.
There’s this, for instance: Our lives are fragile: breakable and crystalline, and we—you might say—hold them in our hands, and we move through a pretty wondrous world and collect things—experiences, memories, relationships: grasshoppers. And there are times when, come hell or high water or rocks, you just have to go after a grasshopper. The fullest kind of living may be when you’re sensing the wonderful fragility of what you hold and yet you’re going headlong after your passion.
One of the beauties of a wedding is its sense of fragility. This ceremonial moment right now is fragile—in its particularity, its light, its gathering of these people, all of us here. In another few minutes or hours, it’s going to break, and time will resume, and then there’ll be memories of a wholeness, a thing made and framed and created. And inside that thing, a relationship captured and held, a living relationship that Derek and Laura will carry, together, through the rest of their lives. Time shatters everything. Memory and relationship hold things together. A wedding pulses between these two truths.
This—this moment right now—is your grasshopper, Derek and Laura, inside this fragile jar of a day. Carry it carefully. Find other such moments. Go after them. Point out for each other the rocks.
in joy and in sorrow, in plenty and in want, in sickness and in health,
to love and to cherish, as long as we both shall live.
And since we were already on the bicycle, we decided to just ride right in to our reception in the Spearfish City Park Pavilion.
Starting Off...Sort of!
So today we write to you from Broken Bow, Nebraska. It is in fact our twelfth night on the road, and our plan is to, after today, do some retroactive blogging to catch you up. AND not to worry, someday we'll even get back to finishing our last few blogs from our time in London and Europe.
We started our day in North Platte with some amazing hills, which brought us down into a little town called Arnold, where we had fruit smoothies and homemade donuts at an adorable antiques shop/coffee house/farmers market called the Farmhouse. They warned us to have the camera ready on our next leg for the "canyons" we'd encounter:
This was the best view taken from the stoker's seat!
After a while things flattened out a little bit...but the whole day was really, pretty nice. We started early to try and beat the heat, which we've been doing regularly, but it still gets darn hot. These were the only clouds we saw, and they didn't do much to give us some shelter from the sun but they did make for a nice photo, matching up nicely with the tire tracks through this field:
Tonight we're camping at a city campground..which means our tent is in a small grassy area behind the Ellen B. Marchek Memorial Tennis Center. It's nice and private, but next to the train tracks...we'll hope it's not too busy!! Tomorrow we head for Burwell, and we'll try to write more from there! Ta-ta!